Marriages today face many challenges and when it is your wife caught cheating on husband, that would be you, the challenges for your marriage just got a little bit bigger. But, it doesn't have to be the end for your marriage.
That isn't to say that you need to give your wife a get out of jail free card after she's cheated on you.
In fact, you need to let your wife know how you are affected by her cheating. You need to let her know there are consequences for her actions. And, you need to hold her accountable for cheating on you.
For the sake of your marriage, you need to make this experience as uncomfortable as possible so that your wife will never want to cheat on you again.
This doesn't mean you need to be mean to your wife in order to make it painful for her. Most women are driven by emotion. By letting her know how you feel and how deeply you were hurt by her cheating, you will be giving her all the discouragement she needs against doing it again. Of course, this is assuming that she has any love left for you at all.
There are many ways you could react when your wife is caught cheating on husband. But, there is one way you should reactabove all others.
The one way you really need to react when it's your wife that's been cheating on you is with calm and control. It's fine to forgive your wife but you can't afford not to let her know that this is not something that will be tolerated in your marriage. If there is ever a time to draw a line in the sand this would be it.
You must be resolved that this is a one shot deal. You can work your marriage out. You can save your marriage. You can forgive your wife for cheating on you. But, you cannot live in a marriage where this continues.
You can't constantly look over your shoulder wondering if your wife is going to cheat on you again. It's one thing for a one time deal that ends with your wife caught cheating on husband. It's another thing entirely for this behavior to continue unchecked in your marriage. Be reasonable in your explanation, tone of voice, etc. but be very clear that this is the only second chance you'll extend in your marriage for a cheating wife.
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