There are people who think that we should only have sex after marriage. Of course there are some people who think that there is nothing wrong to have sex before marriage. In fact, one of the questions teenagers may have in their mind is whether they should have sex in this age.
In fact, the above question is debatable. I am not going to discuss about this issue in this article. Instead, I will talk about what you should consider when you have your first sex.
You need to consider the risk of STD infection at the first place. STDs stand for sexually transmitted diseases and from this name you will know that it mainly refers to diseases which can be transmitted through sexual intercourse. This is the most important issue you need to consider carefully when you have sex.
You need to take measures to protect yourself from STD infection. Since it is assumed that you will have your first sex experience, I will not say that the best method to avoid infection is to avoid having sex. Instead, you should always use a condom when you have sex.
It is also very important that you need to know how to use the condom correctly. As a matter of fact, a lot of people will know that it is very important to use a condom. However, some of them may not really use them correctly. Since it is the first time, you should read the instructions carefully. It is very true that in most cases the condom fails to protect us because we do not use it correctly.
Besides, using a condom can also help to prevent pregnancy. It is also very important to do so. You may not be able to raise a child if you are still a teenager. Raising a child can be a financial and psychological burden to a teenager.
Besides, it is very common for girls to feel painful when they have the first sex. Of course this can be due to various reasons. Yet, you should try to be relaxed when you are having sex. If you feel that it does not lubricate itself enough, you may need to have more foreplay. Using some water based lubricants is also one of the ways to ease this problem.
Sex is meant to be enjoyable. The baseline is that you should know what you are doing and you should also try to protect yourself. If you can do so, there is no point that you cannot have sex when you are still a teenager.