A relationship break up is always difficult for all concerned. After all is ended you reflect on what has happened and see all the symptoms that you never noticed previously. Take note of them now as they can help you avoid a future split and at the worst to come together again after the break up. Take the following tips for avoiding a relationship break up.
The first sign that things are not going well is when there is little physical contact. In a relationship it is perfectly normal that there are periods when there is more or others when there is less sex. If one of the partners loses interest completely in any sexual contact this is a clear indication of a break up in the offing.
Be careful, however, if your partner stops holding your hand or putting their arm around you as they did before, when you are together. When they were always expansive and loving, and suddenly they stop touching you, this could signify indicate future difficulties.
When your partner becomes irritated if you touch them, you should talk to them and find out what is wrong. Just because they move away from you from time to time, don’t think your partner wants a break up; there are many reasons why someone doesn’t want to be touched at a particular moment.
They may have been surprised when you touched them as their thoughts may have been elsewhere. Your partner may have interpreted you action as meaning that you wished to have sex, when they were not up to it at that moment an so indicated this to you by moving away. Don’ treat this to mean you ve a relationship problem.
They may be feeling tired. A simple behavioral change does not mean that your relationship is in danger. Study your partner closely to see whether it only happens from time to time, or in certain circumstances or if they are always like that.
Another sign of relationship difficulties is when you find your partner is telling you lies, however trivial they may be as little ones can expand into matters of importance. They may have specific reasons from time to time, if they are planning to give you a surprise, so don’t jump to the assumption that there is a problem in your relationship.
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Joe Bisley writes articles about human relationship problems.