The love of your life has left you and no matter how you try to move on, you feel that life just isn't complete without him or her. For several unarguable reasons, you know that your ex still loves you and you are willing to do anything to win him or her back. So, what should you do? How do you win back love when it seems impossible to do? Here are some easy ways to get your ex back into your life -- this time to stay for good.
If, after evaluating the circumstances of your breakup, you realize that a large part of it is your fault, accept responsibility for everything you may have done wrong which contributed to the final reason why you broke up. Showing your ex that you have matured enough to know when you are the one at fault will go a long way towards ensuring that you win back love that you both deserve. This is also a sign that you will be more reasonable and open-minded in the future, which will assure your ex that getting back with you is a wise decision.
Casually remind your ex of the good times that you had when you were together. You can do this either by inviting him or her to an event where you once had the time of your lives, or by making a simple comment that you probably would never do a particular thing again because it's just not the same doing it without him or her. Be sure to do this in a subtle manner and do not pressure your ex in any way. Remember that the objective is to make him or her miss the good times that you shared and want to rekindle them. You want to win back love, not force your ex into a situation you both would regret.
Some of the most successful relationships started out with a beautiful friendship, so it may be a good idea to develop a friendship with your ex. This way, you will feel less awkward in each other's presence. At the same time, friendship will give you ample opportunity to coax your ex into spending time with you, thereby setting the atmosphere for you to make him or her fall in love with you again. Sometimes the best way to win back love is by starting all over so there is no harm in initiating a friendship with your ex.
The above techniques should send you on your way to getting your ex back in your arms. You may want to make a written plan of action as well, just to help you keep your focus. Bear in mind as well that what you have set out to do is no easy task so you have to be patient. And never forget -- for you to win back love or be lovable to others, learn to value and love yourself first. Whatever the reason for the breakup was, it will be much easier to win your ex back by showing him or her that you are the same person he or she fell in love with – maybe even better this time around.