If you have been unsuccessful in dating you may not know why. You may think that you are doomed to be alone or that there is just not anyone out there that you click with. There are women out there that want to meet a good man; you just need to know how to present yourself to be successful in the dating world. There are some very simple tips that you can apply to yourself and your dating life to help you be more successful.
Simple Tips to Follow
The first thing that you need do before you date is to take a shower! This sounds really simple, and even a little obvious, but you would be surprised how many guys show up to a date without showering and grooming. Before you go on a date be sure that you shower, shave, and look your best. Not only will you feel better, she will be able to tell that you prepared for the date, which means that you value her opinion of you. This will not go unnoticed!
Be on time! This is one of the biggest sticking points for women who are dating. If you are late you are sending her a message that you do not value her time and that you are not serious. Remember, women are analyzing everything about you and when you show up late you already have a few strikes against you going into the date, why start out at a disadvantage?
A woman likes a man who makes her feel like a woman. You can do this by being a gentleman by opening the doors for her, pulling out her chair, and just being polite. You should still be yourself, but just go out of your way to treat her like a lady and use the good manners that your Momma gave you! On this note, you should also take the opportunity to compliment her where it is appropriate, but dont compliment her too much because it will feel fake.
Listen to her! Women are not turned off by anything more than they are turned off by a man who doesn't listen. Really take an interest in what she is saying and ask her a lot of questions. Women like nothing more than to have a man interested in her and what she is all about. So, listen to her when she is talking and really be interested, asking questions where appropriate.
If you follow these simple tips you will find that you will be a lot more successful on your dates. This is not going to guarantee you that you will be a success on every date, but it will give you that edge that you need to make a good impression. Dating is not difficult when you know how to present yourself to a woman.
Rodrigo Rehn is a Relationships Expert, Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance dating services.