Just as we have fire extinguisher, relationship extinguishers are the worse. Young men and women need to know that it is an act of indiscipline if you cannot remain in relationship just for a year.
I once read in one of the daily newspapers of a lady who had more than ten relationships yearly. No doubt about it, she would not be far from HIV/AIDS and the peripherals.
The sustenance / management of a healthy relationship lie absolutely on the players- yourself! Without beating about the bush, I have just briefly examined lack of discipline as one of the relationship killers.
This ushers us to enumerate other few points. Means caring only about yourself
OVER-COMMITMENT: How committed are you? We live in the days of diverse and multiple uncontrolled activities. Everyday we are confronted with many things beckoning on us for action. Work is a vital part of life. A working fellow is always happy. Be that it may, we must know that there is time for everything. It is therefore disturbing to see that some public servants sacrifice the precious time they should have with their partner for the office work. Do I mean to discourage her work? No, not at all; you need to create some special time to phone your partner or even send some credit for the call as the case may be. Text message assuring him/her of your love and commitment in the relationship.
You also need to create special time for visitation and healthy/profitable discussions.
Selfishness:This is another evil that extinguish or kill any relationship that is not placed on check and balance.
Selfishness in it real context means caring only about yourself rather than about other people.
Some partners are so selfish that they have now graduated into misers. What am I trying to establish here? When you think of buying a pair of shoes for instance, do you ever think that your partner might need one as well? Even in discussion, you always want to be the only one to do the talking.
Other relationship extinguisher that we do not have space to discuss are impatience, anger, suspicion to mention but a few. Do not kill your relationship yourself, hence nothing can do.
