by Joseph Matthews
Pick up lines have a very bad reputation.
For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such
"Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"
"Your name must be Gillet, because you're the best a man can
"Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see
myself in them."
Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the
other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an
Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention,
therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.
And this just isn't true.
A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.
Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to
begin a conversation.
That is all.
Once you get the girl talking with you, then you can work
your magic and do what you need to do to get the date, the
phone number, or the make-out.
But if you can't get the conversation started, then you can
do anything else!
You want something more that just talking to a woman; you
want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into
your conversation is the only means of continuing your
Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?
Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss
for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of
something off the top of their head, while often missing the
opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think
of something to say.
This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up
lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being
original and you need something to help you get the ball
Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of
pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.
"I know you from somewhere, don't I?"
This is a lame pick up line, and all women know it, you
might think yourself clever, but they will not.
Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions,
complimenting her on her clothing and telling her she looks
like some big celebrity.
Why is this?
These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers
you; the conversation has nowhere to go.
Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick
up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while
inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to
continue talking with you.
How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?
The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something.
Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren't afraid to
share them! (Particuarly when they come to relationships!)
Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say
something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on
something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to
time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a
particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the
opinion of a woman about this subject.
Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up
with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her
children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit
more enjoyable as life moves along.
This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such
1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5.
The places you can go with this type of line are limitless.
Here are some of my favorite follow-ups.
"Are you a believer in astrology?" (This can begin
conversations about destiny and fate.)
"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign
compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is,
"Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing."
I could go on, but you should get the idea.
So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the
girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you
the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to
become familiar with you.
This is how you begin conversations.
Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and
set up your first date.
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