Are you tired of trying to be something you're not? Spending your time in places you don't like or acting differently then you really feel? Do you want girls to like you just the way you are and not the way they expect you to be.
To be honest some girls will never like you just the way you are. But that's only because you don't fit into their ideal trait world. They have a list that includes a guy who likes romance movies, eating at nice restaurants, and likes to hike for hours. You on the other hand love horror movies, eat only at fast food places, and would rather sit around a fire drinking.
Trying to get a girl who doesn't like your traits to like you is like trying to push a watermelon through a straw. It's pretty much not going to happen.
But here's the great news. There is a girl out there who likes all the things you like. In fact there are many girls out there who like what you like. Once you find one of them you'll know it.
So the real question is how do you find a girl that will like you for you?
You go to the places you love and do the things you enjoy and wait for the girl that catches your eye at one of these places and then make your move.
Be yourself and don't put on a show for her because if she likes you for what you are trying to portray to her than she may not like you for the real you later on. It's that simple. Any girl who is not into you is not meant for you anyway.
If you are in a relationship already and your girl nitpicks at everything you do and seems to want to make you into someone you are not then you need to tell her how you feel about it. There's no other way to let her really know how it makes you feel.
Make sure you tell her in a non threatening way. Don't accuse her of trying to make you into something you're not because she may not even realize that she's doing it and how it affects you.
If she thinks that she's doing nothing wrong or can't seem to understand what you are trying to say to her than maybe it's time to either get professional help to see if she can understand from someone else telling her or move on from the relationship for good.
The thing to remember is that you shouldn't have to settle for someone who does not like you for you. You shouldn't have to act fake or different from who you really are just to get a girl to like you.
You can't change who you are or how you feel about life but you can change how other people make you feel. Find someone who makes you feel good about yourself and who you are as a person. Find someone you can enjoy being around every second that you are with them.
