(Note: In this article, I will be using "he" and "she" interchangeably for simplicity. However, the tips apply to members of both genders)
How do I get my ex back before it is too late? I really want to get back together with my ex as soon as possible.
Most probably, you are trapped in a situation similar to the one described above or perhaps you may be in a worse situation. So, can you really do anything about it?
Well, my answer is this. If you want to get your ex back, you need to take the initiative, especially when your ex is not doing anything about it. Don't underestimate the influence you can exert. It really makes the difference on whether you can get your ex back or not.
Of course, there are specific things you could do that could improve your chances but there are also mistakes you want to avoid. Making those mistakes can hinder your progress.
So, what are the mistakes that you will want to avoid to get your lover back? Well, a good guideline is this, don't do things that make you seem desperate. Here is why.
It is a natural tendency for people to avoid other people who seems desperate. I apologize if "desperate" is a strong language and I hope you are not offended by this term. But I just want to illustrate this fact.
Let's look at an example. Say a car salesman needs to meet his sales quota. Do you think he can make more sales by being pushy or by attracting the right customers? I think you know the answer.
This is also the same in a relationship. So, you don't want to make the mistakes of calling him again and again or begging him to come back to the relationship. You need to use attraction in order to get your lover back.