Do you not know how to respond when a guy tries to flirt with you? Do you feel like you're the only one that doesn't know the right way to flirt? Do guys fail to respond when you try flirting with them? Learning the right and wrong way to flirt is easy if you just learn a few simple tricks about what flirting is supposed to be and what it isn't.
Flirting is supposed to be fun and it doesn't have to lead anywhere. It can simply be cute playful banter between two adults and if you look at it that way, much of the stress you are probably feeling goes away. When it's just a playful conversation the fact that someone turned you down or walked away, simply means that they don't get to enjoy and have fun with the conversation. So what are the special tricks you need to know to really keep a guy's attention while flirting?
Smile
Flirting is fun right? So you should look like it. Guys not only prefer women who are smiling, but it gives you more confidence and keeps the conversation from getting serious. It also makes him feel welcome to enter into conversation with you. If you keep a frown upon your face, even if you initiate flirting, the guy may feel unwelcome or unwanted. So keeping a happy and friendly smile upon your face is the first and biggest rule of flirting.
Body language
Beyond smiles, there is much more your body can do during flirting. Since flirting involves lighthearted teasing conversation it is up to the body to express true interests or desires. If you want to show the guy that you are serious or that you are really interested in him, the best way to do so, is through the eyes or by touching him. By giving him a look that clearly states where you'd really like the conversation to be going, it is a subtle question that he can either ignore or respond to. In this way it keeps the pressure off of both of you. Casually touching is always a great way to elevate meaning in flirting. Patting him on the shoulder or absentmindedly hitting his leg, will quickly get him thinking about things progressing further. Even if you don't want things to go that far, having him think about it, keeps him interested and wanting more.
