If you want to create extreme rapport with a girl you have just met, you eventually want your vibe to be in sync with hers. The vibe is the vibrational energy you are transferring to other people, almost your own radio frequency.
During the first approach and interaction, you want your vibe to be slightly higher than hers; this demonstrates high-energy and all the other aspects that is linked with triggering attraction such as humor, dominance, and cockiness. Eventually you will have to lower that vibe to be in sync with hers before you both leave if you want to have a strong chance of seeing her again.
Being cocky, dominant, and the funny guy does not build the deep connection from being stranger to somebody she likes to go on a date with. This only grabs her attention in making her notice you as an appealing person, and later you are confused why the next time you call her up or try to get her to hang out, she completely forgets and doesn't remember who you are, even though you 2 were bantering witty, one-liners, and just simply enjoying a good damn time, and you assumed just because she was having a good time, you got this girl!
Why this is so? She could have been drunk or possibly under the influence on some stimuli, regardless you are still just a stranger in her eyes. Why would she go through all the works of preparing herself, putting on make-up and spend times with you instead of her friends?
In a female's world, is way more complicated than a dude. She goes through a conflicting life where she has to present herself in one way to live up to society's expectation and norm when she can really want to be another person.
Most guys keep up the clown act and fail to create the connection, in order to steer clear of the dreaded friend zone. This is not so. This is revealing another side of you. You already established yourself as this guy who was all exciting and intriguing to her, now make her see herself being able to be a part of your world by building that deep connection.
Author Description :
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.
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